I was reading an article on CNN and two kids (brothers) were both killed by a tornado and their bodies were found in a pond. Their parents were on the news crying….it was so sad.

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My girlfriends parents kinda frown upon my living standards. I just kinda blow it off, It’s just amazing how many ignorant people are out there. I can’t hardly stand to speak to these stuck up a**holes anymore.

It’s not like my place is a dump, It’s on 2 acres in the mountains, a nice clean 16 x 80, I own the land and a 2 car garage. It has 6 inch walls a singled roof and looks great, I don’t see the problem here.
They are always telling me I need to think about buying a nice house in the city. I think that is absurd. I just paid off my place, and it’s more than nice enough for us.

Why is everyone so focused on their image? They live in 700,000 dollar house with 4000sqft, and it’s just the two of them. And they make less money than I do, they just paid for it through selling their last house, which they lived in for 35 years.

We never get bad storms/tornado’s here.. just blizzards.

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My parents have their homeowners insurance through State Farm, along with it being bundled with our car insurance. She lives in Georgia and I’m in Tuscaloosa, Alabama attending school. The homeowners insurance covers renters insurance at my apartment for property costs (full replacement cost). The tornado that hit the city on April 27th destroyed my apartment and I lost everything. Before anyone asks, I applied for FEMA and got denied (and apparently my apartment is still livable). After some time I was able to assemble my claim of lost property which was over ,000. I did not enclose all receipts, but if there is a problem I can display them. State Farm has started to drag their feet and seems to want to make it as difficult as possible. They apparently have a claims unit reviewing my application but it has taken longer than I expected. What would be the possibility that they find a way to not give me the full amount?

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I had a dream that i was at my middle school,( i am currently in high school) and the room that my class was located in was my grandmothers house. there was a large Tornado coming that we could see, but i ran as fast home as i could because i only lived a few blocks away. no one was home and i ended up back at the school/grandmothers house. when everyone went downstairs there was this greenish looking sick old lady and a really sick looking cat and everyone started screaming because the old lady was trying to attack them. we all ran upstairs.i then left in search for my parents(who are separated) i try both of their phones but no answer. so when i leave to go and find them i head to where they work. but when i get some ways away from the school the city turns HUGE almost Las vegas looking but the city never ends. so i find a shuttle train which i have never been in or seen, the shuttle is almost like a roller coaster but it takes me down to this water front. at the water front everyone is watching a tv and crying. on the news its talking about large volcanoes erupting in europe and it is going to make europe go almost complete under water(i live in america). it also showed videos on the news of the large cities being sunk down by the volcanoes. I run away as fast as i can, i end up in these trails that go through a forest that is located in my town that i go to very rarely and there is this coach (the wagon and horses) and he tells me to climb in and he is very nice. and then we end up Driving into the forest a ways with a few other people and the dream ends. and i never did find my parents. what could this dream mean or indicate?

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Why not educate the children and teach them safety and have plans in place for disasters? I hate seeing kids scared because of wind or rain. If parents taught them to deal with natural disasters and stayed calm it would help the children much better. I had a tornado go over my home and have been in one so I know what it is like. We saw the destruction afterwards but were safe and calm…most around us just ran around like chickens with their heads cut off.

What are your thoughts?

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ok this question may be long and i don’t want any rude, dumb comments please. well i live in tornado alley (nebraska,south sioux city) and my 16 years of living here there hasn’t been a tornado that struck the town. ( not in my 16 yrs of living here, im not sure before that. ) and i thought that we didn’t live in tornado alley so i didn’t worry about tornado’s until we heard the sirens and a tornado struck in a little town not far from where we live and ever since then ive become traumatized and im afraid that every severe thunderstorm can mean that a tornado can form. ive asked people if they think a tornado can hit our town and one person said no because there hasn’t been a tornado, i want to believe that but i get an uneasy feeling that maybe one day it will be our turn and i don’t feel prepared. the second person said yes that a tornado can hit our town and that sooner or later it will but i don’t want to believe it. are there any states that are in tornado alley that have never been hit by tornado’s or that just because they live in tornado alley doesn’t mean they have to get hit by tornado’s? and what disturbs me also is that people aren’t scared if a tornado hit our town and also my parents are divorced so im always worried about my mom because she doesn’t know if theres a tornado warning ( she doesn’t watch the weather news and i tried making her but shes stubborn so i have to keep informed and i think her basement is not good shelter but she probably wont leave the house for another shelter ) if u can help with some of these questions i asked and maybe calm me down a bit because ive become such a worrywart ever since i experienced this :/ thanks

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Hi, I heard that there is going to be a tornado in Texas.. I don’t know where I and my family should go if there is one. We don’t have a basement to go in, and I am really worried about my parents. Is there any place we can go quickly if a tornado comes or anything we can do when it comes, QUICKLY? Please let me know because I am not so good at "Weather" things, and etc..

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35 years worth of stuff of our own plus stuff accumulated over my parents’ lifetimes that we never look at because it’s all stored in boxes or books. I’d like to archive the originals more carefully and have digital versions to see. I know how to store the originals better, and I can get the digitals onto flash drives or cards to use in the electronic frames, but what is the best way to store electronic files -the most likely to be read 5 or ten years from now and the least likely to decay in the event that the originals get hit by a west-Texas tornado or the like.

Thanks.
KRS
It’s hard for me to know which answer is "best" since I have no basis on which to judge. I’m going to pick one of the first answers.
Sorry I can’t pick more than one…I appreciate all the suggestions, and by the way, no longer do "thumbs down" on answers you took the time to post. I"m still not sure if "dvd" "cd" or "blu ray" is the best medium, but I think that makes better sense than the external hard drive, too. I will send copies to family members in other states, as well.

Thanks to you all.
Karen

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Hey!Okay so I am 13 and I live in tornado valley basically and we Are ALWAYS getting hit by tornadoes/severe weather.Well guess what?-They are calling for severe weather late tonight and tomorrow.Everytime a storm comes;I feel like I have panic attacks and my parents say to stop it or else(haha)anyway;How can I be prepared for this and get over my fear and actually be able to NOT have a stomach ache Everytime a storm comes.Oh and my family has a Storm shelter and the whole it is in was dug by my dad so that makes me feel even worse!Please help

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My step-dad is always trying to say I am because I have 12 pets. (13 if you count my sister, lol) Anyway, I have 7 dogs, 2 cats & 3 hamsters. All the dogs & cats were rescues. I disagree with him that I am because I don’t want to get any more. I’m leaving for college in a couple years, I’m taking off a year between high school & college to save money for my own place so I can take them with me.

I don’t even plan on getting a gold fish or anything until after these pets have passed on & I’ve had my time to heal. I work odd jobs all the time so that I can afford their every need. I pay for their food (raw diet), I built their enclosures, I pay for their medical, I give them all their own individual attention as long as play with them together & I feed/water them. I’ve gone without my extra money when something unexpected has come up. Like when we had a tornado & it tore our back fence down.

I took the money I was using to save up for a new car to pay for a new one because my parents refused & I needed it to ensure their safety. I always have some money put aside for medical purposes. We live right outside town, (like 1/2 mile) & we have 2 acres, my parents live in their house, I live in our converted workshop & my pets live in the enclosure attached to it. Half is closed in so it’s warm & the other half is like a screened in patio. I always have enough for them & I don’t have to kill myself just to afford them. They are all healthy & get their shots as necessary.

So, how exactly am I an "Animal Hoarder"? Is it the number of pets or what?
But my wanting a car is no where near as important as their safety nor is it even a need, it’s a want so no I don’t think I put my needs before theirs, but okay.

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After 3 yrs he took me to Venice and proposed. Heaven. The only strange thing was that he didnt like me spending the nights at his house except saturdays or half term holidays. I saw him nearly every night and we were always together. His family and mine were happy or us. He told me quite early on that he would like to work abroad at some point. I spent most of my time trying to find a job abroad so we could go together. My only stipulation was he try and go to an english speaking country as this gave me a good chance of finding a job as well as I wanted him to have his dream. After 5 or 6 years, I mentioned isnt it about time we started thinking about living tgether? He said that he was scared of living together so I agreed how about we try
me staying more than 1 night a week t start off with as we are together all the time on holidays and it has never been a problem. He agreed but it never happened. After 6 years like this my family and his started to say he was using me as we did everything couples do except live together. They constantly questioned me about where we were going, if we had a future etc. They semed to blame me where it was his decision to not have us move in. I told him to please talk to them as I was under so much pressure from everybody. Last year I lost my job unfairly and was considering legal action. I was in such a mess and told him he could do better than me as I was a nothing and a nobody (I was very depressed) After 5 weeks I found another job but found out he had secretely asked another girl out. He said he was so sorry,it was becuase I said he could do better. We stayed together, I said we need to move this relationship up as engaged now for 4 years and still no
improvement on living together. I decided to get out from the pressure of my parents and buy my own home. He agreed and helped me with the deposit saying we would have our own place (even though he already lives alone) so he could live with me. During this his pal, became ill with Cancer – he dealt with this by cutting himself off from me saying he was going through a terrible time and his job was possibly being cut too. I said should we have a break so he could deal with the situation, he said he couldnt handle any external pressure namely me as I was asking him when I coud stay the night (getting angry in the process as he didnt undertsand why I felt used for sex) After two months of not seeing him properly, I asked him what was going on and he said everytime he saw me he gets stressed out. I have stood by him through two fatal accidents, his workload, his ups and downs etc and was finally at breaking point. I found out that a younger girl (20 yrs
younger) had asked him out and he was seeing her. she told me to get lost he was with her now!!

She text me lots of vindictive messages and he did not stop it. He said he was at his lowest when he met her and wants us to get back together. the house I bought went through when he was with her. I am on my own now doing it up, his work found out about them and sacked him. He has now had to move away for work. Is this my fault and how do I get us back together.
When I asked him why he did this, he said because I told him I would be leaving after another year if things didn?t change a bit, also he was at his lowest point in life because of his pal dying. He told me he only got engaged to me to keep me until somebody better came along. After 6 months we started talking again and he said he didnt mean anything he said. have now found out he is seeing somebody abroad; I saw their photo on face book. I confronted him and he has just said he doesnt want to hurt me.

Now though, he is with this other woman moving on. The girl he cheated on me with has moved onto her next target without a care in the world. I am left holding the bag all on my own. She broke us up like a tornado and has now left a path of destruction. How do I get my life on track, I have not many pals and am very alone. I see her everywhere happy and smiling whereas I have just lost the bset thing I ever had and I cant cope with the loss. Her ex told me she is destructive. She breaks up families and moves on. Now my guy and I are in different countries and moving on. How do I move on to? I just cant

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What can I do to help myself and be a better person?
Please do not judge me as it is hard enough living with who I have clearly become as it is. I come from a loving, wonderful family. My parents both came from nothing and worked hard to provide for me everything they could. As a child I never went without but things were never just handed to me. Also when I was younger I experienced a lot of hard situations including losing a very close relative while they were babysitting me at the age of 10 as well as losing my best friend to a freak accident at the age of 12. Many times after that I had been close to people who had passed away whether due to sickness, old age, or accidents. My parents were always wonderful but never forced me into therapy. They did the best that they could. My friend boyfriend and I had adult feelings for each other but we were so young and immature and did not know how to handle them and we treated each other very poorly. It needless to say ended very bad. From that point I have realized I have no self control. NONE. It is mainly when it comes to relationships ending because in other aspects of my life I am able to demonstrate it. I expect to always get what I want and am not able to accept when I cannot control something. I am unable to deal with rejection and always think I am able to fix something and make it better and I lack the skills and control in order to just understand that some things need to be left alone. Which in turn when relationships end I am unable to handle it emotionally and I do "crazy" things. Not in the sense of destroying property but I fabricate stories in order to get attention from my ex. I say and do things without thinking about the consequences and just expect people to forgive me and stick around. I feel bad about myself and am unhappy with where I am in my life so I am not honest to others because I want them to think better of me. I care too much about what people who are not important think and care less about what more important people think. My behavior is erratic sometimes I will sleep all day and stay out all night and wake up and get really down on myself because I know that is not what I want to do and I know I was raised better than that. I had an abortion and at the time was with a guy with whom we were both truly in love. The emotions of the relationship were very high due to the pregnancy and the choice we made together. He asked me for space and I was unable to realize that it had nothing to do with me but with him being overwhelmed. I was unable to give this to him. Rather than back off I came on full force which obviously in turn pushed him away. He clearly broke up with me. I continuously contacted him, fabricated stories and said horrible things to him in order to gain attention from him. Months went by and even after all that I had not gotten myself the help emotionally that I needed and I entered another relationship with someone who was completely wrong for me and treated me less than I deserved. I would pick fights and say horrible things to him and expect him to just forgive me. For awhile he did until he had enough. Which in turn he as well asked for space. I was unable to give him the space he asked for and contacted him extensively. I fabricated stories and said mean things to him in order to gain attention from him. I am very concerned about what others think of me however my actions have created an image and reputation that I am "crazy" I am very embarrassed of this. This person I have become is not the person I know myself to be and it scares me. I know I am a good person and I don’t know how I got this far and how my issues have completely taken over my life. I constantly push people away and run away. I get very defensive and am not able to deal with my feelings. I do know right from wrong but I do not listen to my inner voice. When I do not have stability in my life, my life tornados out of control. I get so down on myself for not working or being able to find a job and the things I have done and way I have acted that I sleep all day and my eating schedule gets messed up. When I fight with friends or others I get mean and personal. I am very ashamed of the way I act. So basically my question is what can I do (obviously therapy 100%) to better myself and be the person I know I am. Please just honest, polite answers, we all go through rough times. Thank you

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saw him nearly every night and we were always together. His family and mine were happy or us. He told me quite early on that he would like to work abroad at some point. I spent most of my time trying to find a job abroad so we could go together. My only stipulation was he try and go to an english speaking country as this gave me a good chance of finding a job as well as I wanted him to have his dream. After 5 or 6 years, I mentioned isnt it about time we started thinking about living tgether? He said that he was scared of living together so I agreed how about we try
me staying more than 1 night a week t start off with as we are together all the time on holidays and it has never been a problem. He agreed but it never happened. After 6 years like this my family and his started to say he was using me as we did everything couples do except live together. They constantly questioned me about where we were going, if we had a future etc. They semed to blame me where it was his decision to not have us move in. I told him to please talk to them as I was under so much pressure from everybody. Last year I lost my job unfairly and was considering legal action. I was in such a mess and told him he could do better than me as I was a nothing and a nobody (I was very depressed) After 5 weeks I found another job but found out he had secretely asked another girl out. He said he was so sorry,it was becuase I said he could do better. We stayed together, I said we need to move this relationship up as engaged now for 4 years and still no
improvement on living together. I decided to get out from the pressure of my parents and buy my own home. He agreed and helped me with the deposit saying we would have our own place (even though he already lives alone) so he could live with me. During this his pal, became ill with Cancer – he dealt with this by cutting himself off from me saying he was going through a terrible time and his job was possibly being cut too. I said should we have a break so he could deal with the situation, he said he couldnt handle any external pressure namely me as I was asking him when I coud stay the night (getting angry in the process as he didnt undertsand why I felt used for sex) After two months of not seeing him properly, I asked him what was going on and he said everytime he saw me he gets stressed out. I have stood by him through two fatal accidents, his workload, his ups and downs etc and was finally at breaking point. I found out that a younger girl (20 yrs
younger) had asked him out and he was seeing her. she told me to get lost he was with her now!!

She text me lots of vindictive messages and he did not stop it. He said he was at his lowest when he met her and wants us to get back together. the house I bought went through when he was with her. I am on my own now doing it up, his work found out about them and sacked him. He has now had to move away for work. Is this my fault and how do I get us back together.
When I asked him why he did this, he said because I told him I would be leaving after another year if things didn?t change a bit, also he was at his lowest point in life because of his pal dying. He told me he only got engaged to me to keep me until somebody better came along. After 6 months we started talking again and he said he didnt mean anything he said. have now found out he is seeing somebody abroad; I saw their photo on face book. I confronted him and he has just said he doesnt want to hurt me.

Now though, he is with this other woman moving on. The girl he cheated on me with has moved onto her next target without a care in the world. I am left holding the bag all on my own. She broke us up like a tornado and has now left a path of destruction. How do I get my life on track, I have not many pals and am very alone. I see her everywhere happy and smiling whereas I have just lost the bset thing I ever had and I cant cope with the loss. Her ex told me she is destructive. She breaks up families and moves on. Now my guy and I are in different countries and moving on. How do I move on to? I just cant take this.
I really want to meet that special person and thought I’d found him. Am I ugly, please look at pic and tell me.

http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?pid=308584&id=1080292859&ref=fbx_album#!/photo.php?pid=73700&id=1080292859&ref=fbx_album

Whats wrong with my teeth? lol

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Alright, so at around 4:00 AM this morning a storm rolled into town. Well, I was watching MTV and decided to go outside to make sure there isn’t a tornado or something. No tornado, so I come back in and notice my parents bedroom door is open. I thought that it was odd since I remembered it being closed when I walked out. So I thought no problem, closed it and watched TV for a bit more. Well. my dog woke up and I put her out to use the restroom. I come back in after a few minutes, the bedroom door is open again.

Now I’m just thinking how odd, there are no drafts and no one closing the door so I decide to whip out the video camera and set it on the tripod and walked outside to check on the dog.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o9myhANI1VM

This was the video.

As you can see the door opens on it’s own but there is no drafts, and I can’t understand why it’s doing it. It doesn’t do it when I’m in the house. Then the wind blows our front door open so I shut it. I sit down at the computer, door blows open again. I close it and the bedroom door is open AGAIN.

Well now I’m saying F this whatever is going on and wake up my mom to check the weather with me.

Am I paranoid, or is this a legit reason to be skittish?

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Well my teacher had us fill out this student info sheet and when it ased for an emergancy contact # I could do nothing but say that I do not know information and that all I knew was that was on file in the office. Well apperantly this was a grade and a significant amount of points was deducted from my grade all because I didn’t know certian info.

Also she made up this story about what if "There was a tornado and the place was blowing up and you were being rollled away on a stretcher and they tried both you parents and couldn’t contact them and they came up and asked you who else is there to call?"

and NO I AM NOT MAKING THIS UP!

Do you think that it was fair for points to be decucted from my grade all because I didn’t know any emergancy contact # and all I knew that it was on file in the school office if my file ever made the transfer?

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Im 12 and I have a HUGE fear of thunderstorms. This all started when a tornado came through my school about a year and a half ago. If it’s a normal thunderstorm, then i’m fine, but if its severe…Just ughh. I hate them. And it just got worse after the tornado warning in my area that happened a few weeks ago. Like the thunder scares me and the hail (sometimes). I get my self so worked up about it, so it makes me think that a tornado is going to form, i hate them too. I search up info about thunderstorms and tornadoes all the time, thinking that if i get informed i will be less scared, but it just makes me more scared. o.o I get in alot of trouble with my parents because of this strange phobia. And like what i it happens during school? I don’t want to embarrass myself in front of my classmates! I want this fear to end! Any ideas on how to make it stop WITHOUT meds? Or going to the doctor?Please help!

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After 3 yrs he took me to Venice and proposed. Heaven. The only strange thing was that he didnt like me spending the nights at his house except saturdays or half term holidays. I saw him nearly every night and we were always together. His family and mine were happy or us. He told me quite early on that he would like to work abroad at some point. I spent most of my time trying to find a job abroad so we could go together. My only stipulation was he try and go to an english speaking country as this gave me a good chance of finding a job as well as I wanted him to have his dream. After 5 or 6 years, I mentioned isnt it about time we started thinking about living tgether? He said that he was scared of living together so I agreed how about we try
me staying more than 1 night a week t start off with as we are together all the time on holidays and it has never been a problem. He agreed but it never happened. After 6 years like this my family and his started to say he was using me as we did everything couples do except live together. They constantly questioned me about where we were going, if we had a future etc. They semed to blame me where it was his decision to not have us move in. I told him to please talk to them as I was under so much pressure from everybody. Last year I lost my job unfairly and was considering legal action. I was in such a mess and told him he could do better than me as I was a nothing and a nobody (I was very depressed) After 5 weeks I found another job but found out he had secretely asked another girl out. He said he was so sorry,it was becuase I said he could do better. We stayed together, I said we need to move this relationship up as engaged now for 4 years and still no
improvement on living together. I decided to get out from the pressure of my parents and buy my own home. He agreed and helped me with the deposit saying we would have our own place (even though he already lives alone) so he could live with me. During this his pal, became ill with Cancer – he dealt with this by cutting himself off from me saying he was going through a terrible time and his job was possibly being cut too. I said should we have a break so he could deal with the situation, he said he couldnt handle any external pressure namely me as I was asking him when I coud stay the night (getting angry in the process as he didnt undertsand why I felt used for sex) After two months of not seeing him properly, I asked him what was going on and he said everytime he saw me he gets stressed out. I have stood by him through two fatal accidents, his workload, his ups and downs etc and was finally at breaking point. I found out that a younger girl (20 yrs
younger) had asked him out and he was seeing her. she told me to get lost he was with her now!!

She text me lots of vindictive messages and he did not stop it. He said he was at his lowest when he met her and wants us to get back together. the house I bought went through when he was with her. I am on my own now doing it up, his work found out about them and sacked him. He has now had to move away for work. Is this my fault and how do I get us back together.
When I asked him why he did this, he said because I told him I would be leaving after another year if things didn?t change a bit, also he was at his lowest point in life because of his pal dying. He told me he only got engaged to me to keep me until somebody better came along. After 6 months we started talking again and he said he didnt mean anything he said. have now found out he is seeing somebody abroad; I saw their photo on face book. I confronted him and he has just said he doesnt want to hurt me.

Now though, he is with this other woman moving on. The girl he cheated on me with has moved onto her next target without a care in the world. I am left holding the bag all on my own. She broke us up like a tornado and has now left a path of destruction. How do I get my life on track, I have not many pals and am very alone. I see her everywhere happy and smiling whereas I have just lost the bset thing I ever had and I cant cope with the loss. Her ex told me she is destructive. She breaks up families and moves on. Now my guy and I are in different countries and moving on. How do I move on to? I just cant take this.

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Fill in the blan with the correct word

Word Band: aperture, circumstance, distinguish, grave, sufficient

1. My parents have not _____________________ yet whether or not I can go to the game; they are still deciding.

2. I could tell by the serious look on my moms face that she had a ________________matter to discuss.

3.Windows and doors are________________ in a house because they are openings.

4. before a hurricane, people often go shopping for essential items so they will have a ________________ supply to last through the storm.

5.The police carefully investigated the _____________________ of the crime to try to solve the case.

Thank you so much if you can help. Ive been stuck on this for an hour. English is not my best subject.

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saw him nearly every night and we were always together. His family and mine were happy or us. He told me quite early on that he would like to work abroad at some point. I spent most of my time trying to find a job abroad so we could go together. My only stipulation was he try and go to an english speaking country as this gave me a good chance of finding a job as well as I wanted him to have his dream. After 5 or 6 years, I mentioned isnt it about time we started thinking about living tgether? He said that he was scared of living together so I agreed how about we try
me staying more than 1 night a week t start off with as we are together all the time on holidays and it has never been a problem. He agreed but it never happened. After 6 years like this my family and his started to say he was using me as we did everything couples do except live together. They constantly questioned me about where we were going, if we had a future etc. They semed to blame me where it was his decision to not have us move in. I told him to please talk to them as I was under so much pressure from everybody. Last year I lost my job unfairly and was considering legal action. I was in such a mess and told him he could do better than me as I was a nothing and a nobody (I was very depressed) After 5 weeks I found another job but found out he had secretely asked another girl out. He said he was so sorry,it was becuase I said he could do better. We stayed together, I said we need to move this relationship up as engaged now for 4 years and still no
improvement on living together. I decided to get out from the pressure of my parents and buy my own home. He agreed and helped me with the deposit saying we would have our own place (even though he already lives alone) so he could live with me. During this his pal, became ill with Cancer – he dealt with this by cutting himself off from me saying he was going through a terrible time and his job was possibly being cut too. I said should we have a break so he could deal with the situation, he said he couldnt handle any external pressure namely me as I was asking him when I coud stay the night (getting angry in the process as he didnt undertsand why I felt used for sex) After two months of not seeing him properly, I asked him what was going on and he said everytime he saw me he gets stressed out. I have stood by him through two fatal accidents, his workload, his ups and downs etc and was finally at breaking point. I found out that a younger girl (20 yrs
younger) had asked him out and he was seeing her. she told me to get lost he was with her now!!

She text me lots of vindictive messages and he did not stop it. He said he was at his lowest when he met her and wants us to get back together. the house I bought went through when he was with her. I am on my own now doing it up, his work found out about them and sacked him. He has now had to move away for work. Is this my fault and how do I get us back together.
When I asked him why he did this, he said because I told him I would be leaving after another year if things didn?t change a bit, also he was at his lowest point in life because of his pal dying. He told me he only got engaged to me to keep me until somebody better came along. After 6 months we started talking again and he said he didnt mean anything he said. have now found out he is seeing somebody abroad; I saw their photo on face book. I confronted him and he has just said he doesnt want to hurt me.

Now though, he is with this other woman moving on. The girl he cheated on me with has moved onto her next target without a care in the world. I am left holding the bag all on my own. She broke us up like a tornado and has now left a path of destruction. How do I get my life on track, I have not many pals and am very alone. I see her everywhere happy and smiling whereas I have just lost the bset thing I ever had and I cant cope with the loss. Her ex told me she is destructive. She breaks up families and moves on. Now my guy and I are in different countries and moving on. How do I move on to? I just cant take this.
I really want to meet that special person and thought I’d found him. Am I ugly, please look at pic and tell me.

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saw him nearly every night and we were always together. His family and mine were happy or us. He told me quite early on that he would like to work abroad at some point. I spent most of my time trying to find a job abroad so we could go together. My only stipulation was he try and go to an english speaking country as this gave me a good chance of finding a job as well as I wanted him to have his dream. After 5 or 6 years, I mentioned isnt it about time we started thinking about living tgether? He said that he was scared of living together so I agreed how about we try
me staying more than 1 night a week t start off with as we are together all the time on holidays and it has never been a problem. He agreed but it never happened. After 6 years like this my family and his started to say he was using me as we did everything couples do except live together. They constantly questioned me about where we were going, if we had a future etc. They semed to blame me where it was his decision to not have us move in. I told him to please talk to them as I was under so much pressure from everybody. Last year I lost my job unfairly and was considering legal action. I was in such a mess and told him he could do better than me as I was a nothing and a nobody (I was very depressed) After 5 weeks I found another job but found out he had secretely asked another girl out. He said he was so sorry,it was becuase I said he could do better. We stayed together, I said we need to move this relationship up as engaged now for 4 years and still no
improvement on living together. I decided to get out from the pressure of my parents and buy my own home. He agreed and helped me with the deposit saying we would have our own place (even though he already lives alone) so he could live with me. During this his pal, became ill with Cancer – he dealt with this by cutting himself off from me saying he was going through a terrible time and his job was possibly being cut too. I said should we have a break so he could deal with the situation, he said he couldnt handle any external pressure namely me as I was asking him when I coud stay the night (getting angry in the process as he didnt undertsand why I felt used for sex) After two months of not seeing him properly, I asked him what was going on and he said everytime he saw me he gets stressed out. I have stood by him through two fatal accidents, his workload, his ups and downs etc and was finally at breaking point. I found out that a younger girl (20 yrs
younger) had asked him out and he was seeing her. she told me to get lost he was with her now!!

She text me lots of vindictive messages and he did not stop it. He said he was at his lowest when he met her and wants us to get back together. the house I bought went through when he was with her. I am on my own now doing it up, his work found out about them and sacked him. He has now had to move away for work. Is this my fault and how do I get us back together.
When I asked him why he did this, he said because I told him I would be leaving after another year if things didn?t change a bit, also he was at his lowest point in life because of his pal dying. He told me he only got engaged to me to keep me until somebody better came along. After 6 months we started talking again and he said he didnt mean anything he said. have now found out he is seeing somebody abroad; I saw their photo on face book. I confronted him and he has just said he doesnt want to hurt me.

Now though, he is with this other woman moving on. The girl he cheated on me with has moved onto her next target without a care in the world. I am left holding the bag all on my own. She broke us up like a tornado and has now left a path of destruction. How do I get my life on track, I have not many pals and am very alone. I see her everywhere happy and smiling whereas I have just lost the bset thing I ever had and I cant cope with the loss. Her ex told me she is destructive. She breaks up families and moves on. Now my guy and I are in different countries and moving on. How do I move on to? I just cant take this.
I really want to meet that special person and thought I’d found him. Am I ugly, please look at pic and tell me.

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Am I ugly, am I unsexy – why did he cheat? honestly nd more answers pt 2?
saw him nearly every night and we were always together. His family and mine were happy or us. He told me quite early on that he would like to work abroad at some point. I spent most of my time trying to find a job abroad so we could go together. My only stipulation was he try and go to an english speaking country as this gave me a good chance of finding a job as well as I wanted him to have his dream. After 5 or 6 years, I mentioned isnt it about time we started thinking about living tgether? He said that he was scared of living together so I agreed how about we try
me staying more than 1 night a week t start off with as we are together all the time on holidays and it has never been a problem. He agreed but it never happened. After 6 years like this my family and his started to say he was using me as we did everything couples do except live together. They constantly questioned me about where we were going, if we had a future etc. They semed to blame me where it was his decision to not have us move in. I told him to please talk to them as I was under so much pressure from everybody. Last year I lost my job unfairly and was considering legal action. I was in such a mess and told him he could do better than me as I was a nothing and a nobody (I was very depressed) After 5 weeks I found another job but found out he had secretely asked another girl out. He said he was so sorry,it was becuase I said he could do better. We stayed together, I said we need to move this relationship up as engaged now for 4 years and still no
improvement on living together. I decided to get out from the pressure of my parents and buy my own home. He agreed and helped me with the deposit saying we would have our own place (even though he already lives alone) so he could live with me. During this his pal, became ill with Cancer – he dealt with this by cutting himself off from me saying he was going through a terrible time and his job was possibly being cut too. I said should we have a break so he could deal with the situation, he said he couldnt handle any external pressure namely me as I was asking him when I coud stay the night (getting angry in the process as he didnt undertsand why I felt used for sex) After two months of not seeing him properly, I asked him what was going on and he said everytime he saw me he gets stressed out. I have stood by him through two fatal accidents, his workload, his ups and downs etc and was finally at breaking point. I found out that a younger girl (20 yrs
younger) had asked him out and he was seeing her. she told me to get lost he was with her now!!

She text me lots of vindictive messages and he did not stop it. He said he was at his lowest when he met her and wants us to get back together. the house I bought went through when he was with her. I am on my own now doing it up, his work found out about them and sacked him. He has now had to move away for work. Is this my fault and how do I get us back together.
When I asked him why he did this, he said because I told him I would be leaving after another year if things didn?t change a bit, also he was at his lowest point in life because of his pal dying. He told me he only got engaged to me to keep me until somebody better came along. After 6 months we started talking again and he said he didnt mean anything he said. have now found out he is seeing somebody abroad; I saw their photo on face book. I confronted him and he has just said he doesnt want to hurt me.

Now though, he is with this other woman moving on. The girl he cheated on me with has moved onto her next target without a care in the world. I am left holding the bag all on my own. She broke us up like a tornado and has now left a path of destruction. How do I get my life on track, I have not many pals and am very alone. I see her everywhere happy and smiling whereas I have just lost the bset thing I ever had and I cant cope with the loss. Her ex told me she is destructive. She breaks up families and moves on. Now my guy and I are in different countries and moving on. How do I move on to? I just cant take this.
I really want to meet that special person and thought I’d found him. Am I ugly, please look at pic and tell me.

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Fill in the blan with the correct word

Word Band: aperture, circumstance, distinguish, grave, sufficient

1. My parents have not _____________________ yet whether or not I can go to the game; they are still deciding.

2. I could tell by the serious look on my moms face that she had a ________________matter to discuss.

3.Windows and doors are________________ in a house because they are openings.

4. before a hurricane, people often go shopping for essential items so they will have a ________________ supply to last through the storm.

5.The police carefully investigated the _____________________ of the crime to try to solve the case.

Thank you so much if you can help. Ive been stuck on this for an hour. English is not my best subject.

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my parents are up and down but im not sure anymore i dont wanna work to pack up my yard and set up my basement for a "sleepover" if we arent gonna get anything we already spent hundreds in supplies (food, a generater, and a chainsaw idk y a chainsaw) so will it hit if so what time and day, what catagory will suffolk get wind and rain and thuder? i kinda want it to ome but my dad made us pack cuz "hurricanes cause tornados then get in the basement" so now i got a bag of m fave stuff in the basement with the generator beds, tv and a fridge filled with 100s in food

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After 3 yrs he took me to Venice and proposed. Heaven. The only strange thing was that he didnt like me spending the nights at his house except saturdays or half term holidays. I saw him nearly every night and we were always together. His family and mine were happy or us. He told me quite early on that he would like to work abroad at some point. I spent most of my time trying to find a job abroad so we could go together. My only stipulation was he try and go to an english speaking country as this gave me a good chance of finding a job as well as I wanted him to have his dream. After 5 or 6 years, I mentioned isnt it about time we started thinking about living tgether? He said that he was scared of living together so I agreed how about we try
me staying more than 1 night a week t start off with as we are together all the time on holidays and it has never been a problem. He agreed but it never happened. After 6 years like this my family and his started to say he was using me as we did everything couples do except live together. They constantly questioned me about where we were going, if we had a future etc. They semed to blame me where it was his decision to not have us move in. I told him to please talk to them as I was under so much pressure from everybody. Last year I lost my job unfairly and was considering legal action. I was in such a mess and told him he could do better than me as I was a nothing and a nobody (I was very depressed) After 5 weeks I found another job but found out he had secretely asked another girl out. He said he was so sorry,it was becuase I said he could do better. We stayed together, I said we need to move this relationship up as engaged now for 4 years and still no
improvement on living together. I decided to get out from the pressure of my parents and buy my own home. He agreed and helped me with the deposit saying we would have our own place (even though he already lives alone) so he could live with me. During this his pal, became ill with Cancer – he dealt with this by cutting himself off from me saying he was going through a terrible time and his job was possibly being cut too. I said should we have a break so he could deal with the situation, he said he couldnt handle any external pressure namely me as I was asking him when I coud stay the night (getting angry in the process as he didnt undertsand why I felt used for sex) After two months of not seeing him properly, I asked him what was going on and he said everytime he saw me he gets stressed out. I have stood by him through two fatal accidents, his workload, his ups and downs etc and was finally at breaking point. I found out that a younger girl (20 yrs
younger) had asked him out and he was seeing her. she told me to get lost he was with her now!!

She text me lots of vindictive messages and he did not stop it. He said he was at his lowest when he met her and wants us to get back together. the house I bought went through when he was with her. I am on my own now doing it up, his work found out about them and sacked him. He has now had to move away for work. Is this my fault and how do I get us back together.
When I asked him why he did this, he said because I told him I would be leaving after another year if things didn?t change a bit, also he was at his lowest point in life because of his pal dying. He told me he only got engaged to me to keep me until somebody better came along. After 6 months we started talking again and he said he didnt mean anything he said. have now found out he is seeing somebody abroad; I saw their photo on face book. I confronted him and he has just said he doesnt want to hurt me.

Now though, he is with this other woman moving on. The girl he cheated on me with has moved onto her next target without a care in the world. I am left holding the bag all on my own. She broke us up like a tornado and has now left a path of destruction. How do I get my life on track, I have not many pals and am very alone. I see her everywhere happy and smiling whereas I have just lost the bset thing I ever had and I cant cope with the loss. Her ex told me she is destructive. She breaks up families and moves on. Now my guy and I are in different countries and moving on. How do I move on to? I just cant take this.
I really want to meet that special person and thought I’d found him. Shall I move to south seas to teah english and start a new life?
Sorry this is long.
Just a long story.

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After 3 yrs he took me to Venice and proposed. Heaven. The only strange thing was that he didnt like me spending the nights at his house except saturdays or half term holidays. I saw him nearly every night and we were always together. His family and mine were happy or us. He told me quite early on that he would like to work abroad at some point. I spent most of my time trying to find a job abroad so we could go together. My only stipulation was he try and go to an english speaking country as this gave me a good chance of finding a job as well as I wanted him to have his dream. After 5 or 6 years, I mentioned isnt it about time we started thinking about living tgether? He said that he was scared of living together so I agreed how about we try
me staying more than 1 night a week t start off with as we are together all the time on holidays and it has never been a problem. He agreed but it never happened. After 6 years like this my family and his started to say he was using me as we did everything couples do except live together. They constantly questioned me about where we were going, if we had a future etc. They semed to blame me where it was his decision to not have us move in. I told him to please talk to them as I was under so much pressure from everybody. Last year I lost my job unfairly and was considering legal action. I was in such a mess and told him he could do better than me as I was a nothing and a nobody (I was very depressed) After 5 weeks I found another job but found out he had secretely asked another girl out. He said he was so sorry,it was becuase I said he could do better. We stayed together, I said we need to move this relationship up as engaged now for 4 years and still no
improvement on living together. I decided to get out from the pressure of my parents and buy my own home. He agreed and helped me with the deposit saying we would have our own place (even though he already lives alone) so he could live with me. During this his pal, became ill with Cancer – he dealt with this by cutting himself off from me saying he was going through a terrible time and his job was possibly being cut too. I said should we have a break so he could deal with the situation, he said he couldnt handle any external pressure namely me as I was asking him when I coud stay the night (getting angry in the process as he didnt undertsand why I felt used for sex) After two months of not seeing him properly, I asked him what was going on and he said everytime he saw me he gets stressed out. I have stood by him through two fatal accidents, his workload, his ups and downs etc and was finally at breaking point. I found out that a younger girl (20 yrs
younger) had asked him out and he was seeing her. she told me to get lost he was with her now!!

She text me lots of vindictive messages and he did not stop it. He said he was at his lowest when he met her and wants us to get back together. the house I bought went through when he was with her. I am on my own now doing it up, his work found out about them and sacked him. He has now had to move away for work. Is this my fault and how do I get us back together.
When I asked him why he did this, he said because I told him I would be leaving after another year if things didn?t change a bit, also he was at his lowest point in life because of his pal dying. He told me he only got engaged to me to keep me until somebody better came along. After 6 months we started talking again and he said he didnt mean anything he said. have now found out he is seeing somebody abroad; I saw their photo on face book. I confronted him and he has just said he doesnt want to hurt me.

Now though, he is with this other woman moving on. The girl he cheated on me with has moved onto her next target without a care in the world. I am left holding the bag all on my own. She broke us up like a tornado and has now left a path of destruction. How do I get my life on track, I have not many pals and am very alone. I see her everywhere happy and smiling whereas I have just lost the bset thing I ever had and I cant cope with the loss. Her ex told me she is destructive. She breaks up families and moves on. Now my guy and I are in different countries and moving on. How do I move on to? I just cant take this.

http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=1379&id=1080292859#!/photo.php?pid=308584&id=1080292859&ref=fbx_album The link is what I look like. Am I pretty or ugly?

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