They won’t LEAVE. WHAT can I DO? HELP!!!!!?
My mother and brother came to live with me two years ago after a tornado destroyed their house in another state.

Since then, my husband left for another woman 9 months after they arrived and they are driving me nuts so much that I wish that I could leave.

My brother wakes up all hours of the night. He is 44 years old and hasn’t had a job in 10 years. He is walking around and wakes me up.

My mother is negative and controlling and always sounds as if she will beat you if you don’t do what she says. She is 76. My kids are afraid of her.

I lost my job but I got the house in the divorce so I don’t have anywhere to go because I can’t afford to now.

She follows me around and listens to my phone calls. I once went out in the backyard for some privacy and I found her in the back bathroom listening through the window.

She keeps saving things lie all the little yogurt cups and when i ask her to not do that or simply throw them out, she acts as if I have hot her.

It is not Alzheimers or anything. She is perfectly capable of doing what she wants to do.

I have asked them to leave, I have given them a deadline to leave and they won’t. They have insurance money to rebuild but they keep coming up with excuses.

She does the "I never thought that my daughter would treat me this way" whine when I have had enough and absent myself from the house.

I am losing my mind. What can I do? Has anyone ever had the police come and put their mother out? I can’t make myself do that anyway.

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Family won’t LEAVE. WHAT can I DO? HELP!!!!!?

My mother and brother came to live with me two years ago after a tornado destroyed their house in another state.

Since then, my husband left for another woman 9 months after they arrived and they are driving me nuts so much that

I wish that I could leave.

My brother wakes up all hours of the night. He is 44 years old and hasn’t had a job in 10 years. He is walking around and wakes me up.

My mother is negative and controlling and always sounds as if she will beat you if you don’t do what she says. She is 76. My kids are afraid of her.

I lost my job but I got the house in the divorce so I don’t have anywhere to go because I can’t afford to now.

She follows me around and listens to my phone calls. I once went out in the backyard for some privacy and I found her in the back bathroom listening through the window.

She keeps saving things like all the little yogurt cups and when I ask her to not do that or simply throw them out, she acts as if I have hit her.

It is not Alzheimers or anything. She is perfectly capable of doing what she wants to do.

I have asked them to leave.

I have given them a deadline to leave and they won’t.

They have insurance money to rebuild but they keep coming up with excuses.

She does the "I never thought that my daughter would treat me this way" whine when I have had enough and absent myself from the house.

I am losing my mind. What can I do? Has anyone ever had the police come and put their mother out? I can’t make myself do that anyway.

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My mother and brother came to live with me two years ago after a tornado destroyed their house in another state.

Since then, my husband left for another woman 9 months after they arrived and they are driving me nuts so much that

I wish that I could leave.

My brother wakes up all hours of the night. He is 44 years old and hasn’t had a job in 10 years. He is walking around and wakes me up.

My mother is negative and controlling and always sounds as if she will beat you if you don’t do what she says. She is 76. My kids are afraid of her.

I lost my job but I got the house in the divorce so I don’t have anywhere to go because I can’t afford to now.

She follows me around and listens to my phone calls. I once went out in the backyard for some privacy and I found her in the back bathroom listening through the window.

She keeps saving things like all the little yogurt cups and when I ask her to not do that or simply throw them out, she acts as if I have hit her.

It is not Alzheimers or anything. She is perfectly capable of doing what she wants to do.

I have asked them to leave.

I have given them a deadline to leave and they won’t.

They have insurance money to rebuild but they keep coming up with excuses.

She does the "I never thought that my daughter would treat me this way" whine when I have had enough and absent myself from the house.

I am losing my mind. What can I do? Has anyone ever had the police come and put their mother out? I can’t make myself do that anyway.

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They won’t LEAVE. WHAT can I DO? HELP!!!!!?
My mother and brother came to live with me two years ago after a tornado destroyed their house in another state.

Since then, my husband left for another woman 9 months after they arrived and they are driving me nuts so much that I wish that I could leave.

My brother wakes up all hours of the night. He is 44 years old and hasn’t had a job in 10 years. He is walking around and wakes me up.

My mother is negative and controlling and always sounds as if she will beat you if you don’t do what she says. She is 76. My kids are afraid of her.

I lost my job but I got the house in the divorce so I don’t have anywhere to go because I can’t afford to now.

She follows me around and listens to my phone calls. I once went out in the backyard for some privacy and I found her in the back bathroom listening through the window.

She keeps saving things lie all the little yogurt cups and when i ask her to not do that or simply throw them out, she acts as if I have hot her.

It is not Alzheimers or anything. She is perfectly capable of doing what she wants to do.

I have asked them to leave, I have given them a deadline to leave and they won’t. They have insurance money to rebuild but they keep coming up with excuses.

She does the "I never thought that my daughter would treat me this way" whine when I have had enough and absent myself from the house.

I am losing my mind. What can I do? Has anyone ever had the police come and put their mother out? I can’t make myself do that anyway.

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if so is there a picture im tryin to prove my brother wrong cuz he dont know no better

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My mother and brother came to live with me two years ago after a tornado destroyed their house in another state.

Since then, my husband left for another woman 9 months after they arrived and they are driving me nuts so much that I wish that I could leave.

My brother wakes up all hours of the night. He is 44 years old and hasn’t had a job in 10 years. He is walking around and wakes me up.

My mother is negative and controlling and always sounds as if she will beat you if you don’t do what she says. She is 76. My kids are afraid of her.

I lost my job but I got the house in the divorce so I don’t have anywhere to go because I can’t afford to now.

She follows me around and listens to my phone calls. I once went out in the backyard for some privacy and I found her in the back bathroom listening through the window.

She keeps saving things lie all the little yogurt cups and when i ask her to not do that or simply throw them out, she acts as if I have hot her.

It is not Alzheimers or anything. She is perfectly capable of doing what she wants to do.

I have asked them to leave, I have given them a deadline to leave and they won’t. They have insurance money to rebuild but they keep coming up with excuses.

She does the "I never thought that my daughter would treat me this way" whine when I have had enough and absent myself from the house.

I am losing my mind. What can I do? Has anyone ever had the police come and put their mother out? I can’t make myself do that anyway.

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Growing up, my older brother and I played a board game, in which your peices were little soldiers (I believe) and the goal was to get to the top of the hill. The board was a 3-dimensional rocky hill with a winding path leading up to it. At the top was a cave. You moved by drawing cards. If you drew the card with the picture of a monster on it, you pressed a button on top of the cave and a tornado-like monster piece would spin down the mountain (like a top spins) and if your piece was knocked down by the spinning monster, you had to pick it up and continue from the point where your peice landed. I am 20, and I played when I was young, so it was probably 10-15 years ago when it was made.
Hope somebody can help!

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Okay so For about a year now I’ve been feeling things before they happen.
Like one day at school I felt "im going to get a twilight jacket!" i kept thinking it and then when i got home my brother whispered to my mom "when are you going to get her twilight jacket" then i got it!
and like last night…i was watching tornado videos and the ntoday, THERE WAS A TORNADO!!!! Its freaking me out kind of but i just want to know.theres other things thatve happened but i cant say them all. Thanks!

Okay another weird happening.
I was thinking of my cousin Devon out of NOWHERE.And at that second i said his name he called my mom.
I also said "when is Sherri and Cameron going to get here"
As soon as they said that they called my mom.
But that was on different days. But you know its weird….and creepy. Oh yeah and my mom had a dream about my cousin shwaun going tothe hospital for diet pills.(shes 36 or something). and the next morning my mom called Shwaun and asked her if shewas taking diet pills. She said yes. AND when they were talking on the phone she was wearing the same exact thing she was in the dream(my mom asked).
My Nana had a dream like that long time ago when my dad was 10. But it was about her with her head bandadged up for 3 days in a row and finally she went to the hospital because they said my dad(10) was hurt. And when she got there his head was bandaged up.
there has been other things that my moms sisters Kitty and Lori had. That happened.
When my friends tell me aout something I already know the answer. THE EXACT words coming out of theyre mouth. Because i thought it and she said the same EXACT thing i thought.
Oh shut up Amanda i didnt ask for your freaking opinion. all i asked for was a answer
ANSWERS PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Okay so For about a year now I’ve been feeling things before they happen.
Like one day at school I felt "im going to get a twilight jacket!" i kept thinking it and then when i got home my brother whispered to my mom "when are you going to get her twilight jacket" then i got it!
and like last night…i was watching tornado videos and the ntoday, THERE WAS A TORNADO!!!! Its freaking me out kind of but i just want to know.theres other things thatve happened but i cant say them all. Thanks!
Okay another weird happening.
I was thinking of my cousin Devon out of NOWHERE.And at that second i said his name he called my mom.
I also said "when is Sherri and Cameron going to get here"
As soon as they said that they called my mom.
But that was on different days. But you know its weird….and creepy. Oh yeah and my mom had a dream about my cousin shwaun going tothe hospital for diet pills.(shes 36 or something). and the next morning my mom called Shwaun and asked her if shewas taking diet pills. She said yes. AND when they were talking on the phone she was wearing the same exact thing she was in the dream(my mom asked).
My Nana had a dream like that long time ago when my dad was 10. But it was about her with her head bandadged up for 3 days in a row and finally she went to the hospital because they said my dad(10) was hurt. And when she got there his head was bandaged up.
there has been other things that my moms sisters Kitty and Lori had. That happened.

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my 19 year old brother in law moved in with us about 5 months ago after a tornado came through and destroyed his grandparents house.he was living with them. at first it wasnt a problem he was a good kid.we didnt bother giving him a curfew or anything because we could trust him but now,he’s hanging around with the wrong people and has an attitude thats terrible.hes also partying every day and i do mean every day either drinking or smoking pot. he hangs around people that are 16 and none of them have vehicles so of course, they bum off him.he has a job so he buys his gas but they ride around all day and when he’s out of money usually within two days after he gets paid he comes beggin me for money.we dont make him pay rent or anything all he has to pay for is his gas and insurance for his vehicle.he has a curfew of 12 right now bc i got tired of stayin up worrying about him. last night he tried to borrow some money and i wouldnt give it to him.am i wrong for trying to help him clean up?
he does start paying 100 dollars a month next month in september and when he does that we are lifting the curfew.he has to pick up after himself and everything.my husband agrees with me on this but im usually the one to give in and give him the money anyway bc i get tired of getting the "feel bad for me bc my life sucks" routine when he doesnt realize how he has it made.i havent given in yet though.
to answer one of the questions:there parents are split up and they ended up moving in w/ there grandparents when they were really little. my bro in law was like 2 i think so he doesnt really remember much.they still have contact w/ there parents though.its just hard watchin a good kid who was in college drop out bc of bad grades and then see him go down this road.ive been there myself to and i just dont wanna see him go through what i did. we used to be close but now,he’s changed and thats what he doesnt understand if he would act right i wouldnt have any problem with givin him money.

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There’s a program @ my university where they give a MEMORIAL Loan to students who are in financial need & are receiving financial aid, & the money is deducted from my refund checks. But they told me that if I am in DIRE need, I have to write them a letter of being in extenuating circumstances, so I can get the money earlier. I’m on a fixed income, my electricity bill is high because I had to pay a deposit on it, & I’m low on food & clothing, & I need books & school supplies. & this type of loan is NOT credit-based. My financial credit is poor as a result of Hurricane Katrina (long story) but I became in debt, trying to replace my necessities.

I only have 3 towels & washcloths left. I didn’t realize my brother was stealing my stuff when I was living with him. Now I have my own apartment.
I’m asking in the ETIQUETTE section since this has to do with trying to persuade politely & properly & not rudely.

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photograghs. My brothers house was totally leveled in a tornado and everyone had sent photos of family to him and he put them in his comp. He did find the comp and several years later he cleaned it up and all photos were still there although he lost all the paper photos. Now my wife wants to put all her photos to disc but we dont know if we should use DVD or CD. She may want to send a copy to her brother. Thank you.
There may be quite a few(mother and grandmother)lol

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I dont know what to beleive, we were txting eachother on the day of the tornado warnings, and then they stopped.
He hasnt answered his phone since then. its been a couple of days now.

He was logged on to msn, and supposedly it was his mom, and she said that he died in a tornado.
i asked "are you serious?!" she said "I’m his mother, why would i joke about something like that?"
She thanked me for my sympathy and told me the funeral would be in a few weeks.

I told his best friend about it, he logged on and got the same sort of info… he cant beleive it though, and is going over tomorrow to see for himself. he thinks its the his brother playing a joke on us.

I broke up with my girlfriend because she said she had feelings for this guy that might be dead. if its true should i tell her? or should she have to wait and find out on her own?

Is it real? is it a joke? Tell my ex?
that just makes me beleive it even more, because she cut me off real fast and said she didnt want to talk about it anymore.
she said she was on printing out his conversations.

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my 19 year old brother in law moved in with us about 5 months ago after a tornado came through and destroyed his grandparents house.he was living with them. at first it wasnt a problem he was a good kid.we didnt bother giving him a curfew or anything because we could trust him but now,he’s hanging around with the wrong people and has an attitude thats terrible.hes also partying every day and i do mean every day either drinking or smoking pot. he hangs around people that are 16 and none of them have vehicles so of course, they bum off him.he has a job so he buys his gas but they ride around all day and when he’s out of money usually within two days after he gets paid he comes beggin me for money.we dont make him pay rent or anything all he has to pay for is his gas and insurance for his vehicle.he has a curfew of 12 right now bc i got tired of stayin up worrying about him. last night he tried to borrow some money and i wouldnt give it to him.am i wrong for trying to help him clean up?
he does start paying 100 dollars a month next month in september and when he does that we are lifting the curfew.he has to pick up after himself and everything.my husband agrees with me on this but im usually the one to give in and give him the money anyway bc i get tired of getting the "feel bad for me bc my life sucks" routine when he doesnt realize how he has it made.i havent given in yet though.
to answer one of the questions:there parents are split up and they ended up moving in w/ there grandparents when they were really little. my bro in law was like 2 i think so he doesnt really remember much.they still have contact w/ there parents though.its just hard watchin a good kid who was in college drop out bc of bad grades and then see him go down this road.ive been there myself to and i just dont wanna see him go through what i did. we used to be close but now,he’s changed and thats what he doesnt understand if he would act right i wouldnt have any problem with givin him money.

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Me my parents, and my older brother live in Texas and we know Hurricane Dean may be hitting our area so we are going shopping tommorow for supplies and food. What do we need to get? There are 4 people. So yeah it would help help if you would post a link our sompthing. Thanks for you help :)

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Bugles are a tasty salty corn chip snack.
I love them a lot.

My brother used to call them tornadoes.

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Me and my brother were home alone in Millwoods. We played with the orange-sized hail stones and didn’t realise that something bad will happen soon.
Thank you for the reply. Don’t give someone thumb down for no reason.

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i know there isnt, but my brother doesnt believe me, so i would like other people to comment on the subject.

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This past month ive been having dreams about tornadoes. It usually is about me, my parents and brother and sometimes my boyfriend is there, were at our house or on a family outing or in our car, then out of no where i see a tornado in the distance. Everyone seems to be calmer then i am, im the only one being really hysterical and paniced. We all end up finding shelter in the end and no one gets hurt, but its always a reeeeally close call. Alot of times there is more then one tornado. Like last night there was one huge on and 4 or 5 other small ones comming and going. I dont know what this signifies in the dream..

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both would be the 4 channel, I have a 2 channel that hits my subs hard(tornado), but am giving my sound system to my brother, i have a baby on the way, i just need an amp to power my aftermarket speakers up front and rear. what brand is better? I will be giving away to my bro 2 12" fosgate subs and the 2 channell. i just need a 4 channel to listen to my music when my baby girl isnt in the car(I need baby carriage space, and my subs take up the whole trunk).

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