They won’t LEAVE. WHAT can I DO? HELP!!!!!?
They won’t LEAVE. WHAT can I DO? HELP!!!!!?
My mother and brother came to live with me two years ago after a tornado destroyed their house in another state.
Since then, my husband left for another woman 9 months after they arrived and they are driving me nuts so much that I wish that I could leave.
My brother wakes up all hours of the night. He is 44 years old and hasn’t had a job in 10 years. He is walking around and wakes me up.
My mother is negative and controlling and always sounds as if she will beat you if you don’t do what she says. She is 76. My kids are afraid of her.
I lost my job but I got the house in the divorce so I don’t have anywhere to go because I can’t afford to now.
She follows me around and listens to my phone calls. I once went out in the backyard for some privacy and I found her in the back bathroom listening through the window.
She keeps saving things lie all the little yogurt cups and when i ask her to not do that or simply throw them out, she acts as if I have hot her.
It is not Alzheimers or anything. She is perfectly capable of doing what she wants to do.
I have asked them to leave, I have given them a deadline to leave and they won’t. They have insurance money to rebuild but they keep coming up with excuses.
She does the "I never thought that my daughter would treat me this way" whine when I have had enough and absent myself from the house.
I am losing my mind. What can I do? Has anyone ever had the police come and put their mother out? I can’t make myself do that anyway.