Clumsiness? Boys answer this?
Hey.
So I’m 17. I’ve never had a boyfriend (aka long term relationship) of any sort. I’m also incredibly clumsy and forgetful. Like I smash into everything, I forget stuff, I loose stuff…. I do it all.
I’m not trying to be annoying here in description-land, but I’m friends with most people in my grade, Everyone also says I’m really funny and pretty-sexy (5’9 with blond hair), blagh blagh blagh , you get the picture so I’ll shutup.
Look, I’m not whining, and part of it is really is that I’m just not that interested in dating, and not perturbed by this at all.
I just want to know if toning down my human tornado characteristics would help me attract the chicos that I want. See, I don’t think my guy friends are being truthful.
So, can you guys please tell me, honestly, how much of a turn off being a clutz is?
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12 comments
Anthony on February 6, 2010 at 4:36 pm
haha, you sound cute. well, thats just my opinion. but i love dorky girls. this all means that youre interesting and that if and when you get a boyfriend, he will never know whats coming next so it will all be fun. trust me, clutz=awesome sauce
Cory on February 6, 2010 at 4:36 pm
its sexxxxxxxyyyyyyyy. as long as you like cereal..
Jason on February 6, 2010 at 4:36 pm
I don’t care if your clumsy, us guys only care about your boobs and butt.
paintedlights on February 6, 2010 at 4:36 pm
Pretty big turn off for me.
billy47 on February 6, 2010 at 4:36 pm
just be urself, dont try and become someone else just to impress people, because that makes u fake. ull find someone soon enough.
help with mine?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20091213203617AAyPAnk
Panaz on February 6, 2010 at 4:36 pm
As long as your clumsiness doesnt cost me some serious $$ i dont care.
Michael on February 6, 2010 at 4:36 pm
People are probably too scared to ask you out, or maybe you have a huge spot on the back of your head that you havnt noticed yet so boys just look at t and go eugh like theyve jsut woken up
smiley on February 6, 2010 at 4:36 pm
it is ok dear…just take it easy..no need to rush for relationship that requires dating, leading to sex and so on..things don’t have to be done in a rush…take it easy and be urself…
Andrew L on February 6, 2010 at 4:36 pm
Hello
Being a klutz can turn some people off. So you SHOULD try and STOP or TONE DOWN being a klutz, if you can
Good question by the way
ATP743 on February 6, 2010 at 4:36 pm
I know you said boys answer this, but I am a girl with the same sort of problem. Guys honestly like it because it makes you seem more relatable. Like they do not have to be nervous around you because you are silly. So yeah, if you tone it down they may go away. But you have to consider that the people who are attracted to you for your real self are probably the boys you want to end up with anyway. They don’t want you to change, they like you for who you are.
Dahammer on February 6, 2010 at 4:36 pm
Honestly, it depends on the guy u want to snag.
he may like u being clumsy to that it gives him the opportunity to help u if u fall, stuff like that.
OR he may not like it cause it would lead him to believe that u are not familiar/comfortable with ur body.
like i said before, it depends.
Jeff on February 6, 2010 at 4:36 pm
Being clumsy isn’t a turn-on, but it’s not really a turn-off either. Clumsiness can happen to the best of people.